sabato 12 maggio 2007

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Eppure ci sono ancora persone che credono di poter controllare i propri sentimenti, persone che si ripetono quello che devono fare e quello che non è giusto che loro facciano..
Non si può vivere così per troppo tempo, prima o poi i conti si fanno. Il “devo farlo”, il “devo comportarmi così” alla fine si paga sempre e si paga fino in fondo.
Non dico che il libertarismo affettivo sia sempre un bene, anzi, provoca parecchie scosse, non è certo propedeutico ad una stabilità emotiva, però…però almeno ci permette di mettere sullo stesso piano rimpianti e rimorsi.

Se voglio qualcosa, se attraverso un amore, un sogno, un ideale, una persona fisica io sto bene, non capisco perché io dovrei rinunciare a questo. Io voglio tutto, non voglio essere obbligato a fare scelte.
La politica degli aut aut è una politica fascista in amore come in sociologia.
Non voglio essere costretto, perché poi l primo intoppo sarò assalito da rimpianti e rimorsi insieme, non uno per volta, ma tutti insieme, soffocato da frasi tipo…”se solo avessi fatto quello che volevo fare”…”se avessi avuto più coraggio”.

Che palle! Io non voglio ridurmi così, io non voglio essere costretto a questa forma di ottusa passività. Perché poi non è vero che sono delle scelte. Quando io dico “vorrei ma non posso” non sto scegliendo, sto subendo, è molto diverso. Anche io tante volte ho commesso questo errore, anche io sono scappato prima ed invece di scegliere. Sto ancora male per quello che ho fatto.
Allora non nascondiamoci dietro a scelte di comodo, mettiamoci in discussione, solo così si cresce, perché poi se si arriva al bivio del “devo e posso” vuol dire che qualcosa in noi si è accesso…non commettiamo il delitto imperdonabile di spegnerlo…questo sì che non finiremo mai di rimpiangerlo.

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pa ha detto...

È triste che non ci siano commenti ad un pensiero tanto intenso. Forse non ci sono commenti perchè non c'è niente da commentare o forse quello che dici fa tanta paura da togliere il fiato.
...e quando ti troverai in mano quei fiori appassiti al sole di un aprile ormai lontano, tu li rimpiangerai...
No, questo non dovremmo mai dirlo!

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Non dovremmo dirlo, ma poi alcuni di noi lo fanno, perchè diventa un alibi. Si ha paura di perdere l'attesa beckettiana, si ha paura di non saper più come gestire la cosa e allora si preferisce vivere di rimpianti.

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Io non aspetto più Godot, forse perchè ho visto la morte così vicina da poterla toccare. Ora preferisco vivere, amare.
Se riesci a tuffarti nella vita non ne esci più ma è un rischio che non tutti vogliono correre. E' meglio non affacciarsi mai alle finestre dell'albergo sull'abisso. Ma cos'è che spaventa tanto?
Vivi, AMA e... niente rimorsi,niente rimpianti.

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